Relationships between people are complex and require constant work and interaction. But what do you do when you realize that your family life is so hard that there is almost no chance for improvement? How do you know if your relationship has no future?
1. Lost interest in your partner
If you are not interested in where your partner and with whom he spends time, if you do not discuss common interests and hobbies, it is a clear sign of loss of interest in the partner. Think back to how you communicated in the beginning of the relationship when you had no children, no life. If you don’t have that now, it’s worth thinking about.
2. Loss of communication
Frequent quarrels over trifles, nagging or complete ignoring of each other – all this indicates a loss of communication. If you cannot communicate normally and calmly discuss any problems or contradictions that arise, it is an alarming sign.
3. your partner’s maladaptiveness
Partner’s position is a kind of role model of behavior that must adapt as family life and the situation changes. If you do not take into account the changes in your partner’s life and demand attention as before, it threatens the relationship.
4. lack of desire for changes in important moments
In a relationship, people inevitably grow and develop by helping each other. If you don’t like something about your partner and you periodically let him know about it, but he doesn’t do anything about it, it’s a clear sign that he doesn’t want to change for the sake of the relationship.
5. You are spending less and less time together
If your partner prefers to spend time with others or get stuck on the phone or playing computer games, this is an indication of his priorities. If you have no special moments together in life, it’s also a clear sign that you’re losing interest in each other.
6. You don’t want to prove anything.
If you come to the conclusion that you do not want to argue and explain something, it shows indifference.
7. You don’t feel pride in your other half
If you are not proud of your partner or even ashamed of him, it is a clear sign that you have no future together.
8. You are increasingly attracted to other people of the opposite sex
If you are increasingly thinking about other people, it is a clear sign that you have no future with your partner.
9. Emotional emptiness arises
If you have nothing to talk about, you can’t share impressions and discuss things, it’s a clear sign that you have no future together.
10. You don’t see a future together
If you don’t see a future together and aren’t already afraid to break up, it’s a clear sign that you don’t have a future together.
What is the right thing to do?
If you notice that you have at least one of these signs, it is worth thinking about what to do next. If you want to save the relationship, you can contact a psychologist or marriage counselor. If you realize that you have no future together, then the best solution is to get a divorce.